We've Lost

Sometimes I can't look into your eyes when we're talking because I know that I will cry. Daddyman lost someone he knew last week. I'm really worried about how this will affect him. I also find myself thinking about this man's wife a lot. I just cannot imagine the pain she must be feeling. I would like so much to comfort her. I cannot believe there is anything I or anyone else can do to make her feel better. The funeral is Sunday and I can't decide whether or not to go. Selfishly, I do not want to go. It will be too painful and scarry and real. Part of me does want to go because I think it is SO important that she sees the community supporting him. I'm not sure what to do.